The neighbor came to the door, knocked and asked the question most parents hear after some time living among the same people that have children..."Can Austin come over and play?"...Uhhhhhh....

Have we already come to this point where he can just go off by himself? What do I say? Do I bring him in my car? No. Not for four houses Farrah, come on.
Will he ride his bike alone? What?
Yes? No? Yes? No? Ok. yes....Not a moment had passed between the time that I spoke that word and him jumping on his scooter and he was off down the street. I quickly shouted "One Hour!!" and barely got a "K!" before he was out of earshot.
Next Question:Do I watch him?
What is the protocol for staying cool and keeping him safe all at the same time? Watch? Close the door and hope for the best? Watch? Close the door and peer out the window? Peer.... But what if I'm spotted and Austin is branded the kid in the neighborhood with the weird mom that watches you from the window? We can't have that.
Best alternative...grab the binoculars and peer inconspicuously from a distance out the window....far more normal...I mean, I could be bird watching for all they know. There just comes a time where you have to trust that everything you've taught him, he will remember.
An hour later, Austin came back in alone, pink cheeked, and happy. They had a good time and he was back on time. One hour and he stuck to it....Good kid.
OH MY! You are something! If I had a mirror right now and were looking into it..I swear, you would be looking back at me! How much can we be alike?!
ReplyDeleteI remember when Patrick first asked to "go to Jasons house -just down the street." (THAT would be-to play with YOUR brother-and not long after we moved to the neighborhood! In other words-same feelings! He was WAY too young -in my eyes..and then off he goes on HIS scooter!!
And to think Farrah, YOU were the ONE....THE very YOUNG, very sweet...Y-O-U-N-G girl, that I TRUSTED with MY PRECIOUS baby boys. All I can say right now is: I done good!